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New Year’s Fitness Resolutions - Why Do You Set Them? Part 1

Thursday, December 27th, 2007

There are many reasons you set New Years Resolution, however, the results are the same. Have you ever said this?

“This time is different! Each year I say I am going to get in better shape, only to fall to some lame excuse for not following through. I know I can do it, I know I have to do it this time. I don’t feel good about myself, my energy is low, and I am afraid of something happening to my health. I have got to do something starting today!”

Waiting any longer is not an option for me. The fact is I have been making too many excuses for to long. You can call it laziness I guess, maybe even a little pride and ego, but the bottom line is I don’t want to have to hit rock bottom in order for me to get the point about taking care of my health.

Some say, “Oh sleep on it, decide in the morning.” Others say, “I am just scared to see it through to the end.” No matter how I want to hear it or see it, giving myself easy outs may cost me my life someday. In my mind the question remains, “Why wait?”

Most likely you have not, but maybe you should. This year keep these things in mind:

RULE #1: DO NOT set a New Years Resolutions!

Why do I set them?

Here are a few reasons we do:

For the Smell of it!

A part of the excitement of getting a new car lies on the inside. In the beginning how many times do you take the car to the car wash? How overly cautious are you not to spill drinks, ding the doors or run out of gas? But, one of the best things about getting a new car is the new car smell. You get in, feel the leather, check the mirrors and take a deep breathe. It’s a new smell, it’s fresh, and it almost makes you feel alive again. You get a sense of accomplishing something worth while, a reward for your hard work. Soon though it all goes away, why? Could it be you set New Year’s Resolutions for the smell of it?

They are new smells in our life. A change from the surroundings that have sadly become stagnant water. You need a new start, a new car to drive for the year. You need something to take care of, nurture it and call it your own. It could be some wishful thinking that tells you to set one even though you have not thought it through.

There are many times through pressures of life that we fall into just doing things because it’s the IN thing to do, and that includes New Years Resolutions. Knowing, deep down we are not going to follow through with them.

This year, get serious, don’t sell out! Follow through for once.

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Adoption: Laughter and Tears

Thursday, December 27th, 2007

If you ever walk through an orphanage, it will be an experience you’ll never forget. Witnessing children in poverty, children discarded, children stunted both physically and emotionally, will stir your heart beyond belief. And adopting a child is a joy as great as witnessing the first sharp intake of breath by your very own newborn infant.

The suffering of orphans vary from country to country, but even in the US, where conditions are as good as they get outside of Western Europe, less than 20% of those that age out of the foster care system are completely self-sufficient as young adults.

The conditions elsewhere are sad and sadder, and the need for families to take these children home is dire, in some cases a matter of life and death. The orphans in Sierra Leone bear pain and suffering that no human being should have to endure. Food, potable water, and healthcare are in short supply. The median age in Sierra Leone is 17. Due to war and shortages of food supply, many of these children won’t make it to that median age.

Children waiting for adoption in Sierra Leone.

The future looks bleak for even the average orphan. In Russia, 40% of the orphans who never find homes as children become homeless as adults, and 10% commit suicide after aging out of the system.

For those with special needs the future is even grimmer. Disabilities are not tolerated anywhere in the world as well as they are in the United States. Wheelchair ramps and accessible public bathrooms are just a couple of outward signs of how integrated our society is. In many countries, special needs orphans will never leave the institution. In Russia, they are considered incurable invalids and put in a sanatorium for life. Kimberly Reese described the situation in both Hungary and Bulgaria, “I saw NO special needs people ANYWHERE outside the orphanages.”

Susan Buchholz adopted from Vietnam twice. Both of her Vietnamese daughters are special needs children. The only people she saw outside the orphanage with disabilities were those peddling postcards to tourist.

She also witnessed many children begging on the streets. This image still haunts her. Poverty is a way of life in Vietnam. She describes bringing home her second daughter, Teresa. “Even at 14 months of age, she had only had formula and “rice soup” which I imagine to be a kind of rice cereal. Thai, from International Mission of Hope, told us that Vietnamese families do no teach their children to feed themselves until they are 7 or 8 years old to limit their intake of food. He said the teachers in the younger grades also feed their students for the same reason.”

Bulgaria’s orphans suffer emotional neglect. Kimberly Reese adopted two children from Hungary and one from Bulgaria. “Ella’s orphanage in Bulgaria was awful. I can say that both of my Hungarian children were well cared for and came home very stable emotionally. My Bulgarian child was clearly mistreated. …she was like a wild animal. It was very sad.”

Nikki from Hungary, and Ella from Bolivia. Like Susan, Kimberly adopted special needs children. Kimberly’s oldest child, Nikki, is missing most of her left hand. Nikki was offered to Kimberly and her husband by the adoption agency and since they didn’t think her special need was a big deal, they accepted her. “Once we got Nikki home, we realized that these kids rarely ever get adopted in Europe– unless by Americans. Nikki is so wonderful. We requested special needs after that.” Ella’s special needs were emotional. Their youngest, David, was adopted from Hungary and doesn’t have any hands. “Because both Nikki and David have upper limb deformities, Ella always wants to be just like them. Strange, isn’t it? She wants a hand like Nikki’s or arms like David’s. I have seen her try to eat or drink using her elbows like David.”

These disabilities are a part of a natural life to Susan’s and Kimberly’s families. Life is a joy with their beautiful children, and if anything the disabilities create laughter. “One of the funniest comments I remember was when we first brought Nikki home. My cousin had adopted two kids form the states and we were having a party to celebrate. We were at the pizza place and my little cousin said, ‘Kim, don’t panic! They have got to be here somewhere!’ He was so serious that I started to get concerned as he almost frantically looked around for something. I said, ‘what is it, baby?!’ He said, ‘I’m sure Nikki had them when she came in but she has dropped three of her fingers!’ It was a scream!”

Many parents choose international adoption just for this reason. They can offer a better– a much better– life to a child from an underprivileged country. They can see an angel where others have only seen an invalid. They can offer steak and chocolate cake to a child that has hungered for rice.

Hundreds of thousands of children are waiting for families to rescue them from coming of age in an orphanage. For most the wait is futile.

Sadder yet are the potential matches between orphans and families that go unpaired. There are thousands of families with the financial and emotional resources it takes to raise another child. They are willing and eager to care for and love a child as their own but unable to come up with the large adoption fees required upfront. The $20,000 price tag is a hard hurdle to overcome.

Many adopting families beg and borrow enough to cover these initial fees from families and friends. Those who are able to cash in their IRAs or take out a second mortgage are fortunate. Some run up credit card debt to cover adoption fees. Many give up and never consider adopting again.

The road to adoption is steep, but the rewards are tremendous. Imagine giving a child a warm bubble bath before bed. Now imagine that this is a brand new experience for your child. Warm bath water is a luxury many of these children never know.

Even if you are unable to adopt a child yourself you can still make a difference by donating to a children’s charity which offers adoption grants to families adopting older or special needs children.

Tanya Sturman is the volunteer director for A Child’s Desire, Inc., a 501 c(3) children’s charity. A Child’s Desire offers adoption grants to children waiting over a year in an orphanage for a family to choose them. More information can be found at www.aChildsDesire.org

grants@achildsdesire.org

Blogs Are The Great Equalizer

Thursday, December 27th, 2007

Blogs are the great equalizer because they simplify the task of adding content to a website on a daily or weekly basis. They make it simple for the average joy to add content to their site on a daily basis with just a few clicks of the mouse.

What is more, the spider search engine companies recognize this and make it a point to spider the blog networks on a regular basis, sometimes a daily basis.

It may take a spider search engine up to three months to spider your site if you go directly to their submission page to add your domain to their database. On the other hand, with a blog, you can put a story about your domain on a blog with a link to your domain, and your website can generally get crawled within a week or so of putting your link on the blog.

Blogs Require A Commitment On Your Part

Daily additions to your blog should be your goal. If you do not have time to do daily additions, you should at worst do a weekly addition to your blog.

Just like in the real world of websites, if you don’t update your blog on a regular basis, the spiders will save their time and resources by not spidering your blog on a daily basis. If however you do update on a daily or near daily basis, then the spiders will visit your blog with the same fervor you bring to your blog.

Additionally, it sometimes seems like the search engine spiders are giving some additional weight to the results culled from the blogs. The point in this additional weighting is that blogs are filled with personal comments and recommendations rather than sales pitches.

Now that you have also learned this important lesson, it is time to put this knowledge into action. Make it part of your daily or weekly schedule to add fresh, interesting content to your website. Your banker will thank you.

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Print Ready Business Card Files with Microsoft Publisher

Thursday, December 27th, 2007

Designing your small business identity when working to a budget that doesn’t stretch to hiring a professional can be very frustrating. Print ready digital artwork files need to be created to a correct size, resolution and color mode. Providing poor artwork files to printers will result in an unprofessional looking final product which wont make a positive impression on your customers and could loose you business.

This tutorial goes over the basics of creating digital artwork files for creating business cards; it can also be used to create other business stationery items including letterheads, compliments slips and label artwork files by simply adjusting the sizes.

Dimensions mentioned are for landscape business cards and should be transposed for portrait business cards.

To create a new artwork file in Microsoft Publisher select the document type Blank Publication > Business Card.

Adjust the size of the document by selecting File > Page Setup. For business cards set the size to 9.5cm x 5.7cm. The dimensions include the bleed of 3mm (8.5pt) business cards.

Make sure that you set the printing options to 1 copy per sheet using the Change Copies Per Sheet Option.

To set print options select File > Print. From the drop down menu choose “Microsoft Office Document Image Writer”. In the print window click on Advanced Print Settings. Under Separations select Composite CMYK as Output and set the Resolution to 300×300. Close the Advanced Print Settings window by clicking OK and finally just cancel the print window.

Safety Margins

To create guides for the safe area in which you can add your design and text, switch on rulers by selecting View > Rulers. Now you can just drag the guidelines out of the rulers to the required position. You can remove them in the same way by just dragging them back into the ruler.

Any time an image or color is printed to the edge of a page, it must extend beyond the final dimensions of your job to allow for cutting. The size for the bleed of a business card must be exactly 3mm (8.5pt).

Text or artwork you wish to preserve must be at least 3mm (8.5pt) inside of the final dimension of your design (Safety Margins).

It is recommended that you set guides for Safety Margins and Bleed. For business cards set the guides to 3mm, 6mm, 51mm and 54mm vertically and 3mm, 6mm, 89mm and 92mm horizontally.

To save the document in Publisher select File > Safe As and save your artwork as a Publisher file. Email your .pub file to technical@goodprint.co.uk, we will convert it into an acceptable format, upload it into a basket for you and email you a link to view the proof and place your order.

Written for Goodprint Ltd, providors of instant online business cards and matching stationery via their website http://www.goodprint.co.uk.

Moving Out On Your Own!

Thursday, December 27th, 2007

Moving out for the first time is one of the biggest steps you’ll take in life. It not only represents your freedom, independence and a sense of growing up, it also tests your ability to make it on your own.

The first decision you’ll make regarding moving out is usually based on your situation. Will you rent an apartment or a house? Will you purchase a home? Or will you consider buying or renting a condominium or townhouse? For the sake of time we will lump this section into two categories, renting an apartment or a house. As with purchasing your first car, budget is going to be a major factor in determining all of the bells and whistles that will be attached to your first place. How many rooms? How many square feet? Do I need underground parking or a garage? How about a view of the mountains or downtown?

Since most of us will be renting our first place, we will begin there. There are usually two ways to go. You can rent month-to-month, which means you are able to move out whenever you want, but it also means the landlord can kick you out or raise your rent almost at will. The other way to go is a lease. The lease locks you into a predetermined number of months. For most apartments and condos, a one-year lease is standard. Landlords will usually charge you less if you sign a lease with them. Keep in mind that if you sign a one-year-lease and decide to move out after two months, you’re still on the hook for the additional ten months. Make sure you really like living under that roof and plan to stay there for the lease period or you may want to stick with a month-to-month.

Whenever you rent an apartment or a house, there will always be a deposit required. This deposit will vary based on:

1. The amount of the rent.

2. Your credit score.

3. Are you signing a lease or renting month-to-month?

4. Is the landlord buying a new car that month?

5. Are you good looking …(just kidding, if this one is part of the deal, then run, don’t walk, to another rental).

You can usually expect to pay first month plus a security deposit equal to first month’s rent. If you are renting an apartment or condo, many times there is a reduction or special deal offered by the complex. For example, you may be able to pay first month’s rent plus a small deposit of say, a few hundred dollars. If you have pets, and the landlord allows them, you will be required to pay a deposit for the pet. In some cases, the landlord may require you to pay first month’s rent plus last month’s rent and a security deposit. The important thing to remember is to find out exactly what will be required before you sign anything.

OK, moving day. You’ve taken ten minutes and packed up all your worldly possessions. Mom is standing by the door weeping because her baby is now ready to fly the coop. Even though you needed them to give you 20 bucks to go out last week, you are ready to be an independent adult. Dad is also standing by the door, but he’s got a slight grin on his face. Why you ask? He is planning how to turn your room into his office or new entertainment center! But forget about that for now. You’ve found the apartment, signed the rental agreement, paid your fees and are moving in.

Now what?

1. Have the phone turned on.

2. Have all the utilities turned on.

3. Have cable activated if you’re using cable or even have a television.

4. Move all your stuff in (which is usually a bag or two).

5. Get some furniture in that place (beanbags are popular in first apartments).

6. Get some food in the fridge.

7. Make sure you have at least a towel or two and don’t forget the toilet paper.

8. A vacuum cleaner would be nice.

9. Get hooked up for Internet access (might be part of your cable or phone service).

10. Get some plates and silverware and maybe a glass or two (you may get tired of paper plates and plastic silverware).

And this is just the beginning. Now you have neighbors to deal with. Neighbors on the right of you, neighbors on the left, and they’re stuck with you in the middle. Big, large, noisy neighbors walking above you like giants river dancing. Ah yes, the joys of apartment living. However, there are some advantages, like:

1. No yard work. Why? You have no yard!

2. No maintenance fees such as repairing air conditioning units, heaters, stoves, etc.

Renting a house is much like renting an apartment with a few advantages. The neighbors aren’t living in your walls or on your roof. There is a yard where you and your friends can frolic. And with a house, you will usually have a garage where you can park that new car you just bought in that last chapter…you know, the one that isn’t running this week. Some apartments offer garages, but you will pay extra for them. Oh, and if you have anything other than a very small, compact car, good luck using the garage for anything but storage.

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